Congratulations, you’re engaged!

But before you get lost in a sea of cake tastings and dress fittings you have very big decision to make, which of your best guys and girls do you want standing by your side?

One of first things a newly engaged bride does is ask her closest friends and family to be her wedding attendants. We all know the standard titles: Maid of Honor, Matron of Honor, Bridesmaid, and Flower Girl. But what exactly does a Personal Attendant do? What makes an Honorary Bridesmaid, honorary? And with more brides adopting non-traditional titles, how do you know where to place your best girls (and guys!) on your big day?