When it comes to searching for wedding advice, the internet has no shortage of design inspiration, gift ideas, and how to guides. But when it comes to the very real, very human, issue of a rift in your bridal party, the help is few and far between.

Let's face it. The list of wedding etiquette rules is long and ever changing. And there will never be a "one size fits all" map for wedding planning. However, there are some basic do's and don'ts that apply to most modern nuptials. And whether you're the happy couple or a guest of honor, we've compiled our basic "Must Follow" guidelines for you below. 

Congratulations on your engagement, Marrygrams Groom! You're about to embark on the crazy adventure that is wedding planning and contrary to the old school "hands off" stereotype, hopefully you're ready to dive right in and help your bride plan. 

So you've decided to write your own wedding vows. Congratulations! This adds such a unique and intimate touch to your wedding ceremony and it's no wonder that the majority of couples are choosing this option. But with all of that excitement comes a lot pressure! And that's okay. Because with this handy guide, you'll be writing your vows in no time. So grab your favorite notebook and settle in with a cup of tea. We've got work to do!