Think about the last time your mailbox brought you joy. That last moment when you were aimlessly sifting through a stack of bills, magazines and junk mail to find the unexpected corner of a brightly colored envelope peeking out.

The smallest members of your bridal party bring a level of cuteness to the ceremony you couldn't possibly hope to achieve on your own. But when little ones are involved in a wedding, chaos is only just a tantrum away. Lucky for you there are some simple tips and tricks you can use to keep the flower girl and ring bearer entertained and smiling.

Let's face it. The list of wedding etiquette rules is long and ever changing. And there will never be a "one size fits all" map for wedding planning. However, there are some basic do's and don'ts that apply to most modern nuptials. And whether you're the happy couple or a guest of honor, we've compiled our basic "Must Follow" guidelines for you below. 

Congratulations on your engagement, Marrygrams Groom! You're about to embark on the crazy adventure that is wedding planning and contrary to the old school "hands off" stereotype, hopefully you're ready to dive right in and help your bride plan.