How to Write The Perfect Wedding Thank You Notes
There is no lovelier token of appreciation than a handwritten thank you card. And while you may be dreading the process, crafting your wedding thank you notes doesn’t have to be a chore. With a little extra effort, you may just enjoy it!
Step 1: Take Notes
Step 2: Gather Supplies
Step 3: Set Aside Time
Clear a block of time dedicated only to your wedding thank you notes. Your guests took time and care in selecting your gift and attending your wedding and you should do the same for their cards. You don't have to write them all at once, small batches with minimal distractions or rush is ideal.
Step 4: Practice Makes Perfect
Keep a few sheets of scratch paper handy to jot down your early drafts. Not only will it help you tidy up your handwriting, but it will give you a sense of how your words will fit on the page.
Step 5: Get Down to Business
It happens to every bride and now it’s happened to you. The last slice of cake has been eaten, the honeymoon is over, and you simply can’t put your thank you notes off any longer. But have no fear! Check out our handy examples below and you will be licking the final stamp in no time!
A gift from your registry:
Dear Aunt Pam,
Thank you so much for the custom engraved platter. We were so excited to unwrap such a thoughtful and special gift. It will be a cherished piece on our dinner table for many years to come. We are so happy you were able to share in our special day and hope to see you again very soon!
Love,
(Your names here)
A gift not from your registry:
Dear Katheryn,
We can't thank you enough for the lovely set of wine glasses. We've already put them to good use and will think of you fondly whenever we use them. Thank you again for your kindness and for joining us in celebration of our marriage!
With love and appreciation,
(Your names here)
A gift from a stranger:
Dear Mr. Jacobson,
Thank you for attending our wedding celebration! The towels were such a thoughtful (and cozy) surprise! It was so lovely meeting you, and we hope you had a wonderful time.
Warmest regards,
(Your names here)
No gift:
Dear Rachael,
I am so happy we got to visit with you at our wedding a few weeks ago, you kept the dance floor on fire! We truly appreciate you making the trip, it's been too long! We hope to see you again very soon.
Much love,
(Your names here)
Money:
Dear John and Miranda,
It was so wonderful having you at our wedding a few weeks ago! We can't thank you enough for your generous gift. We are saving for a down payment on a new home and you helped put us one step closer to realizing that dream. Thank you again!
With love and appreciation,
(Your names here)
Step 6: The Home Stretch
Etiquette states that you have 3 months after receiving a gift to send your wedding thank you notes. So plan ahead! Order custom stationery, keep a detailed log book, and make sure you bring a sample note to the Post Office to weigh before purchasing stamps. Your guests will appreciate your thoughtfulness and you can enjoy your new Kitchen Aid, guilt free!
Get your custom wedding thank you notes here!